Why wear a bra?

Over 90% of North American women wear a bra, many without ever asking why. This article talks about different reasons women give for wearing a bra. Interestingly, bra wearing is not a necessity for most women for their breasts’ sake; it is worn for cultural reasons.

A brief history of bras

Before 1900s, there is very little evidence of garments that could be considered bras. In ancient history, there are mentions of a strip of cloth tied under the breasts to support and to reveal them, or strip of cloth tied around the breasts to flatten them.

The corset became popular starting in the 1500s, and its one function was to lift and shape breasts upward. The modern bra with its two separate cups was gradually developed from the corset in the early 20th century, in an attempt to manufacture a more comfortable underwear piece.

Today, the bra has “evolved” from simple underwear into an actual sexual garment that emphasizes the sexual nature of breasts. This can be readily seen, for example, by the terminology used to advertise bras: enticing, hot, ravishing, seducing, etc. It is no wonder feminists symbolically threw their bras into the trash in the 60s. Even today, going braless is sometimes connected with feminism.

Do you or your breasts really feel more comfortable with or without bras?

This would depend, first of all, on the breast size, and secondly, on the woman’s habits. Very large and heavy-breasted women usually need to wear bras for support, and they feel pain and discomfort if they don’t wear bras.

Women with small-to-medium size breasts, if they are used to wearing bras, probably feel a little uncomfortable without them. However, this is more a psychological issue and a question of habit: women tend to feel awkward or self-conscious without bras if they are used to wearing them. In fact, when a person gets used to automatically wearing bras, it’s possible to not even notice or pay any attention to the slight discomfort from bras.

Thinking about it, can you sense any discomfort and/or tightness from your bra? When you take your bra off, do you feel something similar to the feeling when you have eaten your belly full at a restaurant, and you loosen your belt a little? Can you possibly even see little red marks on your skin after taking bra off? If you answer yes to these questions, your breasts may be trying to tell you something!

Bras and breast cancer risk

Bra-wearing has been linked to breast cancer in a study done by Sidney Ross Singer and Soma Grismaijer. They found, for example, that women who wore a bra 24 hours a day had a 113-fold increase in breast cancer incidence compared to women who wore bra less than 12 hours daily! They suggest that bras exert enough pressure to the breast and surrounding areas to inhibit the flow of lymph, which then causes toxins and other waste material to remain in the breasts instead of being flushed out.

Now, this effect may be due to the fact that most women just wear the wrong size bra that is too tight somewhere. No one has done any studies investigating the link between breast cancer and how well the woman’s bra fits. Either way, for your breast health’s sake it is better to avoid wearing bras whenever possible, and for those occasions when you do need one, get well-fitting bras.

So why do women wear a bra?

  • “Because breasts need to be supported.”
    This is largely a myth: “…wearing a bra… has no medical necessity whatsoever“, says Susan M. Love, M.D in her “Dr. Susan Love’s Breast Book”. This is similar to the myth that women supposedly need corsets to support their stomach muscles.

    Now, large-breasted women may need the support from bras. Jogging and other active sports may be painful even for medium-breasted ladies. This is, however, an individual thing, so do what is comfortable for you.

    In one study, large-breasted women removed the weight of breasts from their shoulders for two weeks, either by going braless or by wearing a strapless bra. Only one woman chose a strapless bra and all the others went braless. The researchers monitored the women for muscle pain and tenderness. Seventy-nine percent of patients decided to remove breast weight from the shoulder permanently because it rendered them symptom free!
    (Ryan, EL, Pectoral girdle myalgia in women: a 5-year study in a clinical setting. Clin J Pain. 2000 Dec;16(4):298-303.

    If you need or want to wear a bra, find one that is fitting. Be especially careful about the underwires and side panels, because if the fit is not just right, the underwire can poke into the breast tissue, and the side panels can create extra pressure and tightness. Consider getting fitted right with a professional fitter. Also, give your breasts “free time”. Take your bra off whenever you can, such as at home. At the very least do not wear it to sleep.

    Also, while bras do give breasts support, they do not ultimately prevent your breasts from sagging. Gravity will eventually take its effect. There is actually some evidence that bras can even increase sagging. One possible reason for that is that the breast has ligaments, and since other bodily ligaments can atrophy when not in use, the same might happen to the breast ligaments under the constant artificial support from the bra, resulting in increased sagginess. Another possible reason for bra-wearing increasing sagginess is IF a woman wears an ill-fitting bra, which may force some of the breast tissue to “migrate”, resulting in differently shaped breasts than otherwise.

  • “Because I feel immoral or indecent without bras.”
    This is actually a strange contrast to the sexual nature of bras. While many women accentuate the sexuality of their breasts with bras, equally many or more feel that bras are sort of a necessary “modest covering” for breasts.

    Is morality really dependent upon the type of underwear you wear? Women who feel this way have often been made to believe that their breasts are “dirty” body parts that need “tucked away” from sight; and bras become the means of doing so.

    Considering breasts as baby feeders, and realizing that breasts do NOT have to be considered a special sexual body part (such as genitals) can liberate these women from a mental “bondage” that says breasts are “immoral, obscene, or indecent” in themselves.

“Just a note to those who’ve commented before that bras give the female body a cleaner look. After I came across this site, that too was my first thought (and I am someone who has refused to wear bras for most of my life). However, as soon as I had that thought, I caught myself. Of course I (and some of you) think that – that’s what our society has taught us. It has taught us that there is something a bit disgusting or wrong about breasts that aren’t bound. When this kind of thinking has been pumped into you since day 1, it’s obviously very difficult to overcome. I hope that someday we as a society will realize just how silly it is to believe that breasts must be bound to be beautiful or normal. It is just as silly as the old Chinese tradition of binding Chinese women’s feet in order to make them beautiful.”
Renee

  • “Because everybody does so, or in other words the unspoken rules of society so dictate.”
    This is a common reason for wearing bras, and in many situations we women do have to comform to the modern society’s dress code.
  • “I need to wear bras for my job since it’s the dress code.”
    This might be; however those ladies who would rather not wear one for whatever reason, still have some options even at workplace:

    1. Try a camisole/vest .  A good camisole made out of elastic material will give some support to your breasts so they don’t bounce around, and you will probably be surprised how little people notice. Companies that require bras may not have a policy that defines what a bra is. Some cropped camisoles look very much like bras. Some camisoles even have adjustable straps like a bra. Basically, if it looks professional, it should be OK.
    2. Try some other alternative for bra, such as bra cups worn inside the clothing.
    3. Try change the company’s policy. I am not guaranteeing this will work; however in some situations it might be a viable option.
  • “Because I hate the thought of my breasts sagging so much.”
    Bras provide support for the breasts and keep breasts from sagging while you wear them. This is often considered to be the “norm” or the dress code for professionals or otherwise. Some of us may also find discomfort in the sweat that collects under sagging breasts.

    But dress code aside, I hope women will realize how normal sagging is. We get so brainwashed by the media images of young perky breasts that we no longer know what is normal. In reality it is perfectly NORMAL for adult breasts to be hanging in a lower, relaxed position. Check our gallery for pictures of normal breasts.

    Also, it is good to realize that bras do not ultimately prevent your breasts from sagging. Gravity will eventually take its effect, sooner or later. Two scientific studies have even shown that wearing a bra causes the breasts to sag more.

    “A mistaken popular belief maintains that wearing a bra strengthens your breasts and prevents their eventual sagging. But you sag because of the proportion of fat and tissue in your breasts, and no bra changes that.”
    Susan M. Love, M.D. in her “Dr. Susan Love’s Breast Book.”

  • Discomform from sweat and ‘slapping’:
    I, myself, experience discomfort from NOT wearing a bra, due to the way in which sweat collects under my breasts (I live in Dixie), and how my breasts slap painfully against the skin underneath when I move quickly. In fact, due to the fact that I am not a very restfull sleeper, I usually wear a comfortable sports bra to bed.”
    Abi Bell

    If you suffer with a sweat rash under the breasts, one idea is to apply a good medicated body powder (not talc) after you have washed every day. One visitor suggested Lanacane as a good one. Then there is also a product called Swoobies that is designed to absorb the moisture (sweat) between the bra and breasts.

  • “Because I want to give the illusion of a larger breast size.”
    This especially happens among teenagers who are very self-conscious if their breasts end up on the smaller end of the scale. Small-breasted and flat-chested women often pad their bras or perhaps use other means to fill up the bra cup, such as silicone breast enhancers.

    If the society wouldn’t have such a craze about large breasts being better, these girls and women wouldn’t need to feel so self-conscious about this issue!

  • “Because they jump up and down while I exercise and do sports.” Sports bras can be extremely helpful in reducing breast bouncing while running or doing other types of active sports. In fact, the bouncing during jogging, for example, can actually damage the ligaments inside the breasts. Slight movement of breasts is probably just helpful, because movement of breasts aids the lymph flow. You need to judge the situation based on the type of activity.
  • “Because I am breastfeeding and I need to wear nursing bras.”
    Nursing moms (or pregnant women) are indeed told to buy nursing bras and wear them. There is no medical necessity to wear nursing bras either. Of course nursing bras is a handy way to hide the leaking of breast milk, and maybe you want to wear one in order to avoid society’s pressure.

    However be careful because wearing a nursing bra may cause breast engorgement or sore breasts. It might be safer just place a towel under you during the night to catch the leakage, and not worry about breast milk spots on your T-shirts at home, where you can easily go brafree. We got a comment from one experienced mom whose engorgement troubles were over when she quit wearing a bra:

    “I stumbled on your site trying to find some information about the link between breast cancer and breastfeeding.
    I breastfed my four kids all for an extended time. The youngest is six so it has been a while….
    I found something that really helped me with my babies.
    You know how they tell you that you need to wear a bra when you are beginning to breastfeed? I would wake up after finally getting some sleep with a huge bra-shaped engorged breast. With my last two children I decided to go braless during those times and just let the breasts drip. It was very effective for me for treating and preventing engorgement. I think the movement of the breasts also probably helped keep them from getting hard. The bras I ended up wearing the most during those nursing years were some old thin sports bras that my sister had handed off to me. It did elicit some comments (“You need a new bra”) but it was probably more natural than those other nursing bras that didn’t work well for me.”

    Thanks for your site.
    Peggy

So should I wear one or not?

The choice to wear or not to wear a bra is yours. Many women are very used to wearing bras, and feel uncomfortable in public without them. Social occasions may require you to wear one.

Bra wearing is not going to kill you (or ‘kill’ your breasts) if you follow the simple guideline of giving your breasts free time as much as you can – at home, while sleeping. And, if you wear one, remember to always wear a good fitting bra. It should not leave marks on your shoulders or under your breasts, or feel tight. Find a professional bra fitter. Or order custom-made ones. Don’t sacrifice your breast health to fashion.

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Shopping Guide to Men’s Watches

Men’s watches are apparently some of the a lot of assorted in alternative in the watch market. They can be big, small, flashy, apparent and even out and out ugly. In some means there are even added choices for the man on this calculation than the woman, which is attenuate in the adornment industry. To advice you bigger clarify what you are searching for we put calm a few hints to advice you accomplish the appropriate choice.

Basically if arcade for men’s watches the requirements you should be allurement yourself about are: lifestyle, value, price, artful amount and functionality. Believe it or not anyone about consistently forgets one of these and ends up authoritative a best that doesn’t clothing them. Or worse chooses a watch that doesn’t endure as continued as it should or serve them the way they had hoped. We’re out to save the apple here; one wrist at a time.

Lifestyle is important to attending at and it’s apparently something you already anticipation of. But just in case, let’s yield a attending at things anyway. If you plan on scuba diving with your new Rolex on, you ability wish to yield out a additional mortgage for a replacement. Even “water resistant” watches can get damaged beneath the waves. If you do this I see an envelope in your future, for shipment your new armlet off for repairs. By the aforementioned badge if it’s success you wish to express, go for it.

Value is the added thing. Think of it this way; you are affairs something that possibly could be anesthetized on in a generational address and has the abeyant for some affected value. Sentimentality abreast though, watches do tend to access in amount as time goes on. Maybe affairs a cast of Rolex watch that has been authoritative the aforementioned archetypal for years isn’t as bigger as affairs one that has just gone out of assembly or anon will. This makes even your alarm an investment and adds addition aloof point to your air-conditioned “how I begin this beauty” story.

Price is important too. With the accepted economical ache (man I’m annoyed of accounting that phrase… get bigger already!) getting what it is, watches amount a accomplished lot beneath than they acclimated to. 50% off sales are all over the internet appropriate now and demography advantage of these while you can is a acceptable idea. Just be accurate on the accord you choose, sometimes watches aren’t account the amount even on the 50% off scale. Analysis about and compare, accept Mr. Trump?

Aesthetic amount is something that absolutely we shouldn’t accept to awning here, but we’re traveling to anyway. Pick out something you like and if you get it in the mail, accomplish abiding you still like it or that it’s what you ordered. A lot of that don’t get what they ordered never bother to chase up on it. Hold your watch agent to their word! Send it aback it it’s not absolutely what you saw in the picture. This isn’t a huge botheration on the internet or with catalogs, but it does happen.

Make abiding you apperceive what affectionate of watch you are buying. Is it array powered or a nice automated type? Even the automated watches appear in automated and standards. Yeah like cars. The automated watches still charge to be anguish to accumulate the apparatus appropriately anointed though, so accomplish abiding you do that. In actuality it is recommended you analysis the watch archetypal you are cerebration about purchasing for adjustment history, or ask a watch maker about a cast and model. This added leg plan could save you some cephalalgia down the road.

Overall men’s watches are an investment any way you attending at it. They are an investment in money and in time-literally. Accepting the appropriate time is important and that’s why accepting the appropriate watch is so important. Be good, be accurate and be on time.

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How to Choose the Right Bra

Choosing the right bra is one factor that is always forgotten when we’re talking about bras. Women are satisfied wearing the bra they used to wear even if it’s the wrong one. There are many available kinds of bras where women can choose from. Each of them comes in different sizes, colors and styles. With many choices in the market, each woman set their own preference in choosing the right bra they want. What are the important factors to consider in choosing the right bra?blue bras

Actually each bra is created differently to serve different purpose. Each of it may offer different advantages than the others. If you want to choose the right one, first of all you have to think and decide on when and where you are going to use it. If you are a teenager, training bras will be good for you since your breast just started to develop and don’t have the accurate bra size yet. But if your breast fit one of the normal bra sizes then you should start wearing a real one. For women who have larger breast, full support bras with wires are a must. On the other side, for women with smaller breast, there are available light support bras. Full support bras can be used by women with any bra sizes. Sport bras are very important for teenagers to keep their breast in place even moving because of their sport activities. Last but not the least is the push up bra. Also known as the padded bra is designed to literally push your breast up to show cleavage. Another factor important in choosing the right bra is finding the correct size. You can use band measurement to measure your breast size. You can also go to lingerie store which usually offers professional breast measuring service. Choose a bra that is made up of comfortable fabric. It’s very uncomfortable to wear a bra which makes you feel itchy and uneasy all the time. You can also consider the color and style. Know yourself. Choose from the group of bras that interest you the most. The color and style of the bra you wear will always reflect your personality especially when your boyfriend or husband sees it. Don’t let them get the wrong impression about you.. Get the right bra that looks good on you and makes you feel sexy when you’re wearing it. If you are not comfortable with the one you’re wearing right now, don’t hesitate to find a new one. There are always choices available for you.

Choosing the right bra and using it can make wonders. Don’t let yourself fall in the trap of wearing the wrong bra. Always remember the advantages of wearing the bra. Bras come in different styles, sizes and color. You may have a difficulty in choosing the right one, but in the end of course you will be the one who will benefit from it the most. Don’t be afraid to experiment and explore different combinations. Who knows the right bra for you is already there, you just need to see it.

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Bracelets-The Real Beauty of Hands

Bracelets are being loved by almost everyone as they add up to your personality. A big problem which most people have often faced in their lives is with the size of bracelet. People often misjudge their bracelet size and so face the problem of handling it afterwards. Bracelets are available in variable sizes and colors from which you can choose. If the size of your bracelet is even a bit big then it can get off your hands easily leading you to a loss. But by taking proper precautions you can keep your bracelet in a good condition.

Apart from the precious stones embedded in the bracelet, some plastic bracelets are also available in the market that is available at cheap cost. Everyone cannot afford to buy the precious bracelets of gold and silver and so to fulfill their needs people opt for the plastic bracelets. You can use the bracelet in multiple ways such as to gift someone or in a personalized way. Now days you also have the facility to inscribe anything on the bracelets. Bracelets are even used by companies in order to publicize their organization. Inscribing the company name on the bracelet is a useful tool for the company to publicize them. Then, there are some people who like to inscribe the names of their sweethearts on their bracelets so that it is always close to them.

You can find various kinds of designs and colors in the bracelets. You will find it difficult to choose from if you directly go the shop to purchase one. Instead it is advisable to search thoroughly on the net about the bracelet you want to purchase so that you can save your time along with the money. Experts always suggest you to take utmost care of your bracelet in order to keep it in a good condition.

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Amber Bracelet Highlighting Your Nature Beauty

Amira has launched amber series for this coming Christmas season, aiming to provide a better choice for your wish list. Amber a mature technology that utilizes fossilized resin of trees to present a most nature and colourful beauty.  The most common colour of amber is orange, yellow, or brown, while others like blue, black, or even green like this one are rarely seen and highly sought after as jewels.

amber bracelets

This amber bracelet has a 6cm inradius, which can fit most people. Its 2.2cm width will never make it look any too big for you. The clear colour moment with flower patterns, create flexibilities to go with any of your daytime outfit as well as evenings.

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A Berry Red Chiffon Evening Dress That Will Turn People’s Heads

sexy berry evening dress

If you are looking for a long evening dress, the temptation is often to go for something in black.  After all (the argument goes), black is universally wearable, flattering to most body shapes, and readily available.  However, black does not suit all skin tones – it can make some people appear pale – luckily, there are alternatives.

This v-neck evening dress is sleeveless, and comes in berry red chiffon – a lovely vibrant colour which will brighten up the dark winter evenings and is such a nice change from black.  The outline is slender, even though there is plenty of material in the dress, as it is constructed very cleverly to fit and flatter your shape.

red evening dress

The bodice of this red evening dress has a unique softly gathered wrap-over panel on both the front and back, which encircles the body to make a neatly fitted waist.

The neckline and back of this long evening dress are low cut, but not too low, making this a sexy but tasteful design which would suit any occasion.  Along the edges of the neckline and up the shoulder straps is a beaded edging comprising many pretty beads and sequins in toning shades of pink and white. Some of the beads are in flower shapes, and they all sparkle, so you could actually wear this evening dress with no further adornment, or if you wanted a really dramatic look, you could push the boat out and wear some equally sparkling jewellery.

long evening dress

Below the waist, the fabric fits smoothly across the hips, and below the hip line, the skirt is gathered into loose box pleats.  These box pleats allow a little fullness to the skirt without making the silhouette look bulky. At the back of the evening dress, the pleats actually draw the fabric in under the buttocks, enhancing and flattering your outline.

red evening dress

A very nice feature of this long evening dress is that the back of dress is slightly longer than the front, giving the impression of a short train, which will sweep along the floor as you walk.

The chiffon fabric, which is not only a lovely colour but also wonderfully glossy, drapes extremely well.  It is anti-static, anti-wrinkle and breathable, which all makes this red evening dress a pleasure to wear, and it comes in a range of sizes from UK 6 to 14.

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A Purple Satin Long Evening Dress To Long For

I was born in the month of February, which means that my birthstone is the amethyst, which is probably why I have always been attracted to the colour purple.  When I came across this eye-catching purple long evening dress I felt I just had to write about it. In addition to my own love of purple, I have also heard that rich jewel colours are really hot this winter, and this v-neck evening dress is certainly rich in colour, as well as having a pretty jewelled panel at the waist.

purple evening dress

To examine some of the details of this long evening dress:

The v-neck of this evening dress is made up of swathes of gently pleated rich purple satin fabric, which cross over at the front and the back.  This is a flattering figure-hugging style, which shows off your slender shoulders and pretty back to their best advantage, and also leaves plenty of room at the neck to wear either a showy pendant or an elegant close-fitting choker.

There is a contrasting coloured beaded and jewelled asymmetric band cleverly interwoven with the fabric at the waist, and the tops of the shoulders are also beaded.  These little beading touches are what makes this purple evening dress so interesting and desirable, and the bead theme could even be continued by your choice of accessories, such as carrying a beaded evening bag and wearing beaded jewellery.

purple evening dress

This evening dress has stitched knife pleats at the front of the waistline, and the pleats then fall open to allow the fabric to gently drape to the ground.  The knife pleats help to maintain the beautifully slim outline, but also allow a little fullness to the skirt, so that the lovely purple fabric can move and shimmer as you walk.

The fabric from which this long evening dress is made is a soft shiny satin, which is also anti-static, anti-wrinkle, and breathable, thus making it comfortable and practical to wear.  As with most evening dresses from Amira, this purple evening dress also comes in a good range of sizes from 6 to 14.

So, whatever the occasion, whether you are attending a formal party, going out to dinner in a fine restaurant, or attending some other smart occasion, this purple evening dress will surely get you noticed whenever you wear it.

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